Over dessert with a friend a few weeks ago, I was accused of “bringing my work home” to the extent that I live my life in accordance with the scientific method. While at first I was slightly wounded, I realized that I do in fact, do this- and furthermore, that it suits me just fine. By this I mean that ideally, people define their terms so that communication is not hampered by misunderstandings; ideas are shared freely and without criticism until trial and scrutiny provide grounds for appraisal; conclusions are based on personal experience, observation and “data” collected with an open mind and objective eye as free as possible from bias- and always taking into account and compensating for potential sources of prejudice. Theories and opinions are always open to revision as life testifies against them, or new evidence comes to light; and (ideally) mistakes are embraced for the lessons they reveal and behaviour is adapted accordingly. Although some may argue otherwise, I don’t think this makes me mechanical, cold, or lacking in emotion or passion; rather it allows me to focus my energy and enthusiasm on worthy causes and effectively steer myself along a fruitful path.
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what makes a successful person. Not only in the achievement distinction, but the social sphere as well. What draws the line between someone who is likeable, and appreciated, and another who is cherished and held in high esteem by a wide and diverse demographic? Is it a tangible trait that separates the people who leave a lasting impression, and those who flit in and out of our lives leaving behind merely traces of memories? What distinguishes those who turn their dreams into reality, and stretch the boundaries of knowledge and accomplishment?
